unspoken dreams

Last night, Boss and I had dinner at Thai at Silk in Serendra. While enjoying our sinful dinner, we were talking what to do after and out of the thin crazy air, he said he wanted to go to Tagaytay. We were supposed to go to tagaytay last November 05 but since my Boss is really really crazy, he cancelled it on the day that we were about to leave. Cool isn’t it? Hehe! Anyway, going back, since it’s holiday the following day, I immediately said yes. And I see his chjnky eyes became bigger and wider because of shock. I checked my phone to look for my contact in tagaytay to ensure our hotel accommodation for the night. After spending a few minutes over the phone, I told Boss that we’re all set. We have a place to stay and nothing can stop us from going to tagaytay for our very first out of town trip. We found ourselves inside the bus going to tagaytay and after more than an hour of land travel, we reached our destination. We got there around 1am with nothing at all inside our bags except ...

Psychologists and researchers have proposed a number of different theories of love. Love is a basic human emotion, but understanding how and why it happens is not necessarily easy. In fact, for a long time, many people suggested that love was simply something that science couldn't understand. The following are four of the major theories proposed to explain liking, love, and emotional attachment. L iking vs. Loving Psychologist Zick Rubin proposed that romantic love is made up of three elements: attachment, caring and intimacy. Attachment is the need to receive care, approval and physical contact with the other person. Caring involves valuing the other persons’ needs and happiness as much as your own. Intimacy refers to the sharing of thoughts, desires, and feelings with the other person. Based upon this definition, Rubin devised a questionnaire to assess attitudes about others and found that these scales of liking and loving provided support for his conception of love ...

I value relationship. I value commitment. I value emotion. Recently my partner and I encountered a great challenge. – Yes for the past few months that we’ve been together, everything has been okay. We had our petty quarrels but that’s it. But this one’s different. This tackles TRUST, FIDELITY and HONESTY. This is something I cannot handle on my own. Something we cannot do on our own. I’ve decided to lift everything to God. He has greater ways. He has greater plans for us. I must admit we’re far from being the usual us, but we’re trying. We’re a work in progress. We value each other.   And as a famous Bible verse goes: “… Love is kind; Love is patient; Love doesn’t keep records of wrong doing..” It was never easy. No one said it will. Handling such strong emotion as pain will never be easy. It’ll trigger you to commit sin. But if you have faith, nothing’s impossible. You can do everything. Weeping may remain for a night, but rejoicing comes in the morning. - Psalm 30:5...

(n.)  The state of being assured; firm persuasion; full confidence or trust; freedom from doubt; certainty.

I am 25 years old. Neither young nor matured. A man of principles and experiences. Age is just a number not until the years included were full of meaningful memories, lessons and experiences. Looking back, I realized how much I’ve grown as a person. Before I’m a carefree guy not thinking of anything but to be happy and to make the most out of life. It’s a phase I suppose and its perfectly fine. But as years passed by, happiness grew deeper into my mind. It now has a broader meaning. Happiness isn’t limited now to movie date, shopping or expecting monthly salary. It is about satisfaction, security and assurance. 

How well do you understand love? We all have our own perception on love. There’s no point on insisting your idea to someone else’s. We have to respect and accept. That’s the beauty of love, inspite of the indifferences still, 2 people can create a harmonious relationship, working on their indifferences for their own advantage, for their own good. 

Honestly, I do not know what to write.  All I know is that I don’t feel okay. But hey, that’s my purpose in the first place, to share unspoken words and thoughts, right? Something has been bothering me and I really do not know what it is. Whenever I feel this way, I know there’s something wrong. I know that my partner is doing something wrong or something like that. I’ve proven this more than 4x with my ex’s. But the thing is I don’t have a partner, technically, yes. I am single. But I will not deny the fact that I am in love with someone and we have the mutual feelings. Oh well, let’s see. One thing is for sure, I don’t stop. I seek answers. 

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When you love a person, you love him as a whole. You don’t love him because he’s a good dancer, he’s rich, he’s using the latest gadgets and the like. Otherwise, you have a very shallow perception about love. Love is a wonderful thing that will happen to anyone of us. When you finally found the person that makes you a better person than who you are right now, don’t ever let go. You’re on the right track.