moving on.

After falling in love and surrounding yourself with all those sweet nothings and you parted ways, next things to do is to move on. It's hard especially if you poured everything you got in the relationship. It's even harder when you realized how easily he gave you up. In a blink of an eye, everything's gone. He is gone.

There's no point in locking yourself to those promises he gave to you after he left you. He left you. That's that fact you have to deal with. You are now on your own. Alone. Often times what makes it difficult to move on are those promises. We were fooled that promises are really made to be realized but no. Promises are made to be broken, most of them. Whenever you enter a romantic relationship, before it turns our to be a "trauma-ntic relationship", do not give everything you got. I know it's hard especially if you feel that "he's the one" (yeah, he's the one who'll bring hell into your life after) who has been written to be with you forever. It's hard when all you've ever wanted is for the relationship to last. It's hard. But who says loving is hard? True love should be easy and inspirational. So if the one you are with right now is making life even harder for you rather than inspiring you and dragging you to the right path, then he is all fake! Sooner of later, things will just fall apart in front of you and you will be left standing all alone.

Just like an old cliche; "Sometimes, it's not holding that makes us strong, it's bout letting go."

Letting go and moving on are never easy to do because these will develop inner courage within us and will help us become a better person.

just saying.