Flirting and Friendship

John: Hey! Sup?
Mark: Hey. I'm good. U?
John: Same here.
Mark: Working? Where?
John: Yeah. I'm a nurse. U?
Mark: Callboy! lol
John: Wow. Malaki ba kita dyan? haha! Ipasok mo ko.
Mark: Hahaha! OO! kidding aside, call center agent ako.
John: Yeah. I was able to figure it out. hehe.
Mark: nice pics huh? into photog?
John: thanks. just for fun lang. ikaw din eh. hehe!
Mark: R U into modelling?
John: Waaah! haha! joke ba yan??? I am not!!
Mark: Pwede ka kase eh. :)
John: thanks. bolero ka. haha!
Mark: Can I get ur number pala? or may magagalit? :)
John: Ahh.. sure. No biggies. 
Mark: Sige.. sige. :) Out na ko ha. PM mo na lang. :)


Usually ganyan nag sisimula yan eh. Friendship gone bad. At first simple chatting and conversation over the phone. Even if the poor partner of the other guy is already having a hint that there's something, still the other half will keep on insisting there's nothing going on and that they are just friends. Then all of a sudden, you will just feel your partner slowly drifting away from you and before you know it, he's already leaving you. And guess what, they are now together, happily together. Common reasons? 


"We connect eh."
"We have a lot of similarities."
"Nagkakaintindihan kami eh."


Wooooow! So tayo hindi nagkakaintindihan?? Chavakano ba sinasalita mo? tapos Ilokano ako? After merely talking to him for a week, here you are telling me love mo sya??


So this is just a common scenario nowadays and this is how one ditch one partner after another without looking that bad and asshole. I have a big phobia on this specially whenever I meet someone whom I frequently call "PUBLIC PROPERTY"


{*Public Property - this are the type of person that keeps on entertaining guys telling his partner that he's just making friends but later on developing it into something else leaving his partner behind}


I had a very traumatic experience with a person whose personality perfectly fits that description. And one thing I can say about this experience. STRESSFUL! Hindi ka mapakali. Hindi ka matahimik. 


People will then tell me, wala ka bang trust? Of course I have. But with the people around? WALA. Why? Because you have no idea how long can your partner resist temptation. You can never tell up to what point they will provoke your partner to leave you. Wala kang laban dun eh. But one thing is for sure. These things should have never happen if your partner is kind enough to turn his back from these stupid temptations. But the question is, meron pa ba nyan nowadays? If so, please PM me. haha!


Remember, there's a really fine line separating being friendly and being flirty. If you do not know how to identify that, then you're doomed.

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